Numerology by All Star Psychics.
All Star Psychics
Ben & J-Lo Continued
PERSONALITY
Your Personality number is derived from the consonants of your full name at birth. Your Personality is like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your true nature. It is those aspects that you feel comfortable sharing with people at the outset of a relationship. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper aspects of your nature; you reveal more of who you really are, in effect, your Heart's Desire, Expression, and so on.

Your Personality number often serves as a censoring device, both in terms of what you send out, as well as what you allow to approach. It discriminates in the kinds of people and information you let enter your heart and mind. For this reason, your Personality is usually much more narrow and protective in its definition than the real you. It can screen out some of what you do not want to deal with -- people or situations -- but it also welcomes those things that immediately relate to your inner nature.

Your Personality number also indicates how others perceive you. No one can be objective about himself or herself. Even our closest friends and relatives have trouble describing how they see us.

Ben, your Personality is 16/7

You seem mysterious and different. People see you as serious and studious. You are highly independent and self- sufficient. Your exceptional intelligence and wisdom are quickly noticed, people respect you. You are not one to attract people on the basis of your warmth or compassion -- though you may be loaded with both -- but because of your obvious insight into life's mysteries.

You are hard to get to know. You are often withdrawn. It is common for people to see your focus turn inside of yourself in the middle of a conversation.

You have the makings of an intellectual and an aristocrat but you have to guard against arrogance and an attitude of, "I've got it all figured out".

There have been periods in your life when you had little concern for your clothing or fashion, while at other times you are very aware of your clothing and use it to make a specific impression.

You appear dignified no matter how you dress., but a well groomed seven with a touch of dash definitely has an advantage. Your confidence increases when you know you are well dressed.
You are recognized as spiritual and religious, with your very own ideas regarding the purpose of life and the Creator.

You are an inspired speaker, but only when discussing subjects that really interest you. Otherwise, you are not one for chatter.

Your love of knowledge and wisdom shows.

J-Lo, your Personality is 17/8

You appear strong and powerful. You have an impressive personality and can influence and even intimidate through sheer force. You have natural authority. Your competence and enthusiasm attract people with resources.

You radiate confidence. People defer to you because they sense your sureness and effectiveness.
You also exude a kind of controlled benevolence. People sense that you are generous, once you are convinced of the worthiness of the cause.

It is important for you to dress well. You radiate a kind of raw power and able ness, which needs to be refined and enhanced by your clothing. You may even dress a bit flashy, but that will not harm you. Quality is among your highest priorities, and should reflect in your clothing.

Although most eights have a strong constitution, they can be prone to indigestion, ulcers, and heart disease due to their reckless eating and drinking habits and their propensity to be workaholics.
Your Achilles heel is your capacity for an egocentric attitude. The negative side of your personality can cause you to be ruthless, greedy, and intensely lonely.

Conversely, you can be spontaneous and excited. You are essentially warm and jovial. In your heart of hearts, you want everyone to be as excited and as happy as you. Those who are around you often sense this. Your coworkers and employees usually like you.

Your Personality's compatibility is 7 and 8

Quickly recognized when two people first meet, not many relationships even get started unless the Personality numbers are compatible.

Ben and J-Lo, this combination shows that your relationship is based on other numbers in your chart rather than the seven and the eight, which usually neither attract each other nor are naturally compatible in romantic relationships. The notion that opposites attract does not hold true for the seven and the eight.

That does not mean that you do not live a compatible relationship, but simply that other numbers in your chart rather than the seven and the eight are at the source of your mutual attraction.

With the seven and eight in this location in your charts, however, there could be some major differences that may, at times, cause problems.

You have different sets of priorities. This aspect of the chart reveals that Jlo has a strong drive for financial success and security. For Ben, spiritual and intellectual growth is a higher priority. Jlo understands intuitively the balance between the material and the spiritual, and it is this intuitive understanding that makes it possible for J-Lo to excel at business, marketing, or sales.

Ben, in turn, may well have an in-born aversion against everything related to business, which Ben may even view as unworthy of attention.

Ben likes to discuss all kinds of political, philosophical, or spiritual matters, with a preference for the abstract -- issues that usually seem boring to J-Lo. J-Lo prefers the practical, down-to-earth approach that focuses on results, on the bottom line.

Similarly, you may find yourselves at opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to likes and dislikes, from movies to books, to travel arrangements, to housing, decorating, art, and so forth. For example, Ben might enjoy life in a rather isolate, cozy country home, while Jlo might derive pleasure from living in a futuristic loft in a great metropolis. The friends you attract are also very different, and so are your social needs. The seven in Ben’s chart points to quiet conversations rather than loud parties. Jlo needs the occasional experience of abundant noise and interaction with others.

As you can see, the lack of compatibility between the seven and the eight have nothing to do with the heart, but everything with the experience of daily life, the practical matters - where to live, how to decorate the house, the friends you choose, and so forth. This can all be overcome by allowing each other a lot of space and freedom in the way you live your life. J-Lo has to make peace, not to condemn Ben’s choice of friends, career, and even the way Ben deals with money. On the other hand, Ben should respect the way J-Lo focuses on practical goals and results. J-Lo’s drive for success and financial growth are natural parts of J-Lo’s make-up and necessary ingredients for happiness.


The Personal Years form the building steps that mark your progress through life.

Ben, your Personal Year for 2003 is 1

Be ready for major changes. You will be inspired to start new projects or enterprises. You will feel a strong forward push toward new goals.

This is a time for vision and planning. Share your dream with others; make plans, get the necessary support, but, above all, rely on yourself as the driving force. Be decisive!

You are starting a new nine year Epicycle. Everything you do now will affect your future. Do not hold back the inner force of creation. Be direct, daring, and bold.

You will have more confidence and determination this year, particularly in comparison with last year, which was a time of letting go. This year represents a time of birth. It's a time to take charge and to apply yourself to your dream.

This is also a good time to make the personal changes you have long wanted to make: Start a diet and/or an exercise program, or begin a new course of study.

There may be some emotional turmoil, especially in the first two or three months. It takes a while to get the ball rolling. There are many changes you must make and much work to be done.

Be open-minded, organized, and focused. Avoid distractions and procrastination.

You are at a crossroads. You will need courage and a clear head to stay on the right track.

This is a year of opportunities.

The key months in your year ahead are March, in which you are able to lay the foundation to your plans; April, in which changes take place such as a change of residence or career; July and August mark a time in which you will see the fruits of your labors begin to take place; October represents a major turn in events, often fraught with emotional turmoil; the fall marks a coalescing of your plans into more concrete form.

J-Lo, your Personal Year for 2003 is 9

This is your year to finish up all unfinished business, to clean house and make room for new things. On a material level this is a good time to get rid of unnecessary weight, to give away or sell what you do not need anymore and to pay off old debts.

On a spiritual level you will experience a different mode altogether. Your attention should turn to others and their needs, find ways to be of help and give time and energy to worthwhile causes.

You must lighten your burden of questions and doubts and the best way to do so is by directing your attention to another direction, away from yourself and you will find yourself becoming lighter and more in touch with your self. This is a time of completion, problems can be solved and over with, strained relationships relax or disappear, the sources of stress in work or business can be better understood and dealt with.

Be social and communicative, enjoy music and other arts. Your creativity is higher than usual. There can be some difficulties this year due to your desire to face obstacles and overcome them, decisions have to be taken and your courage and strength may be severely tested several times, this is not going to be an easy year all the time but you will feel relieved and on the brink of a positive breakthrough by the end of this year.

This is the end of a nine year epicycle and will you will feel many times the excitement of a new and promising era when optimism is your friend but you will also experience the fear of letting go, however the more you let go the more room there is to be filled during the next epicycle. Key words are:
finish, finalize, complete and be willing to let go.


Your Personal Year's compatibility for 2003 is 1 and 9

Compatibility is as important with the cycles as it is with character traits. It is possible for a relationship between two people with otherwise very compatible charts to break down as a result of encountering one or more incompatible cycles. However, it is much easier to overcome or avoid possible pitfalls resulting from incompatible cycles than from incompatible personality traits.

Once every nine years, Ben and J-Lo, your relationship will go through a particularly difficult time, a time when only your commitment to your heart will be able to save your relationship. This is such a time. You will experience turmoil, major disagreements, and arguments intense enough that they will make you feel that your partner is no longer the nice person you once knew. This is due to a shift in the cycles that causes an otherwise comfortable and compatible gap of one - in place for eight years - to suddenly multiply and, almost overnight, increase eight-fold for this one cycle. In addition, this is an emotionally vulnerable time for J-Lo, exactly when Ben is less sensitive than usual.

There are few, if any, combinations of cycles as difficult and challenging as this one, but with some conscious effort and a dedication to your heart, the relationship will survive and, because of it, become stronger.

For Ben, the most important piece of advice is to give J-Lo plenty of attention, be very sensitive to mood swings, and provide support, even if you feel that J-Lo is overly emotional. For J-Lo, the best advice is not to take emotions too seriously. As you have read in the description of your nine-year cycle, you are going through a lot of changes, which require of surrender and acceptance, giving rise to a tendency to get melodramatic and emotional.

Only your hearts can save the day. So, don’t listen to your minds. No matter how much sense the mind seems to make, it doesn’t have anywhere near the understanding that the heart carries.
PERSONAL YEARS
I am going to include the months for August and September 2003 in this report. There are about 30 pages in the complete compatibility analysis. Due to the lenght of the report, the two months that I am including here, are really the most important for you both this year.

If the two of you will really work on your relationship......you can get through these two months with the relationship in tact. But....I do feel it will be a very difficult time for you both. The cycles are working against you. Without a great effort to understand one another........not letting the mental rule......you may come through the fires. Let your heart rule. Let Love Win. Perhaps you can make it work. Great care must be taken if the relationship is to last.
You will find August and September and the final writing for this Report on the next Page. Click here.
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